摘要:《诗经》是一部经典的文学著作,它的内容深刻的反映出了古代社会的各个方面。在《诗经》中婚恋诗占有一定的比例，它向我们展现了当时社会人们的感情生活和婚姻家庭情况，并且非常概括性的向人们揭示出了社会现实和婚姻现象的本质。《诗经》中的婚恋诗包括爱情诗、婚姻诗以及弃妇诗等，恋爱诗表现的是男青年在追求女青年时一些微妙细腻的心理感情；婚姻诗则表现的是结婚时的情景或者是婚姻生活的境况，弃妇诗描述的是妇女在婚后遭到抛弃的悲惨命运，各种诗歌内容和形象各不相同。先秦的婚俗和婚制对社会不同阶级的人的婚恋生活都产生了深刻的影响。婚恋诗在先秦婚制和婚俗的社会背景下逐步发展起来，通过研究《诗经》中婚恋诗，我们可以更深入地了解先秦礼俗文化。

关键词 《诗经》；婚恋诗；婚姻民俗；先秦礼俗

ABSTRACT:The book of songs is a classic literary works, its content is profound reflects all aspects of the ancient society. Marriage poem in the book of songs occupies certain proportion, it shows the social people's emotional lives to us and what is marriage and family and very general reveal the social reality and the essence of the phenomenon of marriage. Marriage poem in the book of songs include love poetry, marriage and resentment poem, about the women, love poems such as young men in the pursuit of a young woman feelings, or are they in dating and love of the emotional change process; When marriage poems is the performance of the marriage or marriage situation, the paper attempts to describe is the tragic fate of the women in the abandoned after marriage, all kinds of different poetry content and image. Romantic poetry in the pre-in marriage system and developed gradually under the social background of marriage customs, marriage poem in the book of songs through research, we can more deeply understand the pre-in custom culture.

Key words：The book of songs. Marriage poem; Marriage customs; The preen custom