摘要:《琵琶记》无疑是中国古典戏剧史上浓墨重彩的一笔!

　　　在明代一度走红的《琵琶记》，其戏剧的主角赵五娘从古至今备受世人称颂。赵五娘的悲惨命运，令人扼腕叹息，心痛不已；她的形象，却发出熠熠光芒，源远而流长；她的美德，更是中国广大妇女学习的榜样，前进的灯塔。本文将从赵五娘所处时代的社会风尚入手，挖掘出影响赵五娘形象发展的多维原因，主要包含社会因素和作者因素，并借此总结出赵五娘美德的表现方面，分别是尽职尽责替夫行孝；克己利人牺牲自我；娴静自守坚定信念；倔强不屈坚忍能耐。然后结合现代婚姻所面临的问题，从中推阐出对现代婚姻的几点启发：用宽容之心对待婚姻；用孝敬之心对待长辈；用恩爱之心对待配偶。

关键词：赵五娘  美德  现代婚姻  启发

ABSTRACT:The story of pipa in the classical Chinese dramatic history is a pen of the part ! 

　　　The story of pipa in the once popular in Ming dynasty, its plays the leading role of Zhao Wuniang historically widely praise. Zhao Wuniang's tragic fate, it is untimely, heartache; Her image, but yi yi light, source and do so; Her virtue, but also China's vast women learning model, ahead of the lighthouse. This article from the perspective of the social fashion of Zhao Wuniang time, dig out the multidimensional reasons affecting the development of Zhao Wuniang image, mainly includes social factors and the author, and summarizes the performance of Zhao Wuniang virtue, respectively is dutiful for line, filial piety; Keji sacrifice; Wanxiang self-controlled firm faith; Stubborn and unyielding perseverance. And then combined with the modern marriage problems, from which pushed the excuse out of some inspiration of modern marriage, with a tolerance heart treat marriage; In the heart of filial piety treat their elders; In the heart of love to mate.

Keywords: Zhao Wuniang； virtue；modern marriage；inspire